It’s clear that expectations for boyfriends have fallen significantly over time. In the past, men were expected to invest considerable effort into pursuing a potential partner. Today, some guys think that a late-night text message is enough to get a date. They receive praise for simply showering before the outing and are celebrated if they can remember to put their dirty clothes in the laundry after living together for months. While it’s understood that not all men fit this description, there are still many who seem unable to meet even these low standards. Recently, a number of men have unwittingly been in the running for what some are calling the “World’s Worst Boyfriend Award.” Bored Panda has highlighted several notable examples that stand out. Readers are invited to vote for the stories that make being single seem appealing.
One user shared their experience of discovering that their boyfriend was married with a child. They had been dating for a year, managing a long-distance relationship. The boyfriend claimed he was no longer with his wife, and they had made many plans together. However, when the girlfriend expressed concern about his past relationship, she asked him to block his ex. Eventually, she learned the truth from the ex, who sent her pictures of their life together, including their daughter. The girlfriend was left devastated after confronting her boyfriend, who responded by telling her not to contact him anymore. She expressed feelings of betrayal and heartbreak and wondered how to cope with the situation.
Another user discussed feeling frustrated with her boyfriend’s behavior. He frequently made jokes about women, including offensive comments and statements about women’s rights. When she asked him to stop, he dismissed her concerns, claiming it was just humor. The girlfriend noted past incidents where he had disrespected her, such as recording intimate moments without consent and removing a condom without telling her. Although both are young adults, she was uncertain if she should stay in the relationship, reflecting on whether he would ever truly respect her.
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Source: Bored Panda, by Ilona Baliūnaitė