TikTok creator Charlie, who calls herself the “resident fairy godmother,” shared five changes she made to simplify her life. She believes these adjustments could help others as well.
First, she stopped feeling obligated to put things back where they are “supposed” to go. Instead of hiding her clothes away in a closet, she hangs them on a rack. Having them visible helps her remember what she owns.
Second, Charlie doesn’t limit herself to having just one of essential items. While she tries to be eco-friendly, she found it easier to buy extra items, like sunscreen and phone chargers, and keep them in various places, such as her house, bag, or car. This way, she doesn’t lose them.
Third, she let go of the idea that there is a “proper” way to do tasks, especially if it’s less convenient. For instance, she discovered that using pre-chopped veggies and microwaveable rice makes it easier for her to prepare healthy meals. She realized that feeling “ashamed” of taking shortcuts wasn’t helpful.
Fourth, she recognized the need to stop following routines that work for others but not for her. After trying the same morning wellness routine multiple times, she accepted that she needs more variety in her mornings, which made a big difference.
Lastly, Charlie learned that struggling with something doesn’t mean she did something wrong. This realization helped her focus on what she can control and not be so hard on herself.
Charlie noted that all these changes involved letting go of strict ideas about what adults are “supposed” to do. Many viewers found her insights relatable, whether it was about managing items, choosing convenient but healthy food, or finding ways to tackle chores. One viewer mentioned that adulthood began when they started embracing their true self instead of an ideal they felt pressured to meet.
What changes have you made to simplify your life?
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Source: Upworthy, by Heather Wake