Some people are born good-looking, while others are not, which seems unfair. Those with attractive looks often benefit from what is called “pretty privilege.” This means they are frequently seen as more moral and can receive raises and promotions more easily at work. They tend to be the center of attention, have people eager to help them, and usually find dates without much trouble.
But what happens when someone loses this privilege? For those who were once considered attractive, it can be very hard to face the reality of their situation as they age or due to other factors. A former male model shared his experience on Reddit after he faced mental health challenges that led to weight gain. He opened up about how differently people treated him now compared to when he was attractive.
He explained that he noticed a huge change in how people interacted with him. He felt that no one was interested in what he had to say, and it seemed like his weight was the only thing people saw.
When he began to lose weight, he experienced another shift. He noticed that people started treating him better again. He remarked that it was clear how people reacted to him was changing. More people looked at him, smiled, and were willing to help. They listened to him more, and it seemed they also felt less intimidated by him.
The Redditor reflected on the fleeting nature of beauty and how attraction can change over time. He noted that while some may remain beautiful throughout life, true attractiveness can grow in different ways as one ages. He emphasized that qualities like style, wit, confidence, and warmth can become more significant than physical beauty alone.
One woman in the comments shared her own story about how her life changed after gaining weight due to health issues. She noted that people’s attitudes toward her shifted drastically. She found it almost funny how some would go out of their way to show they didn’t find her attractive anymore.
The experiences shared by the former model and the woman reveal the reality of how society views attractiveness.
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Source: Upworthy, by Tod Perry